As a veteran I do admit to regarding Memorial Day with some mixed feelings. On the one hand it is with deep respect, as I personally knew a causality of combat, Captain Eric Daas, USAF. We once served together in the 3rd Air Expeditionary Wing. On the other side is the base commercialism which the holiday has become. To most in the United States it is a three (or 4 day if businesses give the Friday before off as well) weekend, a mini vacation, a chance to sell everything from hamburgers and hotdogs to new cars at discounted rates. I might be in the minority here, but I would love if near all businesses shut down, to stop everything, and to take the day, or even an hour, to pay profound respect and perhaps a bit of grief, to the few who gave so much to so many, like Captain Daas did.
"You may have noticed the small table set for one that is off on its own - it is reserved to honor our fallen comrades in arms. This symbolizes that they are with us, here in spirit. We should never forget the brave men and women who answered our nation's call [to serve] and served the cause of freedom in a special way. We are ever mindful that the sweetness of enduring peace has always been tainted by the bitterness of personal sacrifice. We are compelled to never forget that while we enjoy our daily pleasures, there are others who have endured the agonies of pain, deprivation and death.
I would like to explain the meaning of the items on this special table.
- The table is round - to show our everlasting concern for our fallen comrades.
- The tablecloth is white - symbolizing the purity of their motives when answering the call to duty.
- The single red rose, displayed in a vase, reminds us of the life of each of our fallen comrades, and the loved ones and friends of these comrades who keep the faith.
- The vase is tied with a red ribbon, symbol of our continued determination to remember our fallen comrades.
- A slice of lemon on the bread plate is to remind us of the bitter fate of those who will never return.
- A pinch of salt symbolizes the tears endured by the families of those who have sacrificed all.
- The Holy Book represents the strength gained through faith to sustain those lost from our country.
- The glass is inverted, they cannot toast with us at this time.
- The chair is empty because they are no longer with us.
Let us remember - and never forget their sacrifice.
May they and their families ever be watched over and protected."
*Raises a glass of water*
"To our departed comrades."
*takes a sip of water, and places the glass down*
A grateful nation and comrade thanks you, and long may you be remembered.